How shyness in the bedroom can be bad for your marriage
20 July 2016, 20:38
Nairobi - First of all you need to know your own body
and how it works. If you have no clue, then the other person will not have
Someone else will not be able to pleasure you if you do not
understand what works or show them. They can try, they might be lucky but it
all comes down to you.
do not want to talk about certain things
Your partner has to be able to talk to you
about –everything. If they cannot
talk to you, you can bet if they are really curious about it, they will go talk
to someone else. Usually of the opposite sex and that is what starts a downward
spiral. They eventually get attached to the other person and want to experiment
with them since you will not go there.
You do not have to do it but at times your
partner is just asking or being a tease; does not mean they will want to do it.
do not say what you want
This is where the learning your body part
comes in. You cannot ask for something you do not know. So the both of you get
in this journey of ‘ouch’ moments and ‘no, I do not want/like that’. It gets to
a point you get into routine of something tried and tested and that is where
monotony and boredom steps in.
against your moral soul to do some things
Only missionary please!
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