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He got married just after we broke up

08 March 2016, 19:58 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - You break up with a man and barely a year has passed and he is already married. What is the message behind that? Were you not good enough?

The reason I always tell women not to wait on men is such as the case above. The reason I tell women to get into a man’s face is also because of the reason above. Not because I am a quarrelsome person or I like being in someone’s business but because as a woman who has been brought up in an African society that has never killed polygamy-you will always need to know where you stand where a man is concerned.

Always! There is no what if or excuse that you will make up to excuse someone from wasting your time. The worst part is when you realize it too late and you see him going off quickly with someone else. That only means one thing-you were never the only one in that relationship.

Is he saying that you were not patient enough?

Trust me my dear, what you did was just escape a triangle of a situation. He was never going to make a decision as long as the two of you made yourselves available to him. He just realized that he now had to close the deal before the other one also found out because what he fed you, he also fed her.

Does it mean that you were not good enough?

What it just means is that the man was never yours. Do not overthink it and start tearing yourself part to figure out the fault. Obviously you will find many especially if you see the other one. Not tall enough  or too short. Not earning the right amount or not homely enough. It is always something. If a man does not put all his efforts on you then that just means he was not yours and he did not think you were all that for him. That is why he kept his options open. You do not want to deal with such if he ever comes back and tells you he made a mistake. There was no mistake, take the failure and turn it into a lesson to avoid him.

The moment you let him back in, you will just have messed up your life.

How come you were that stupid never to have seen it?

If a man wants to hide something; he will. It is just a matter of him considering what is worth his efforts in hiding. Trust is an important thing in a relationship; but when you choose to trust the wrong people or someone your intuition is crying against; you have no one else to blame than yourself.

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