Habits women can’t help themselves when in relationships
18 October 2016, 15:30
Nairobi - ‘I don’t really care about whatever woman he is talking to.’ Said no woman ever especially when asked.
It is not even a matter of insecurity or
trust issues; it is just a part of any woman to be curious- even mildly so. It
does not mean she trusts you less, she just wants to know. Period!
your man is talking on the phone and you hear a woman laugh too generously on
the other end
You are sitting on the couch with him or
you are in the kitchen. What he has said because you have heard is not even
funny and the person laughing is said to be platonic. The only people who laugh
to impress a man are women interested in him so she will ask, ‘Who is that?’
She might not follow up there and then but will file it away to review when it
comes up again or the situation replays itself. That is when you will hear, ‘I
don’t like so and so…’
he keeps texting someone
You are just there enjoying a movie or
dinner or whatever, then it is like his attention has been drawn. Killing your
enjoyment. What woman will ignore? Names allowed, Peter, Tom (friends you know
and have heard of not the woman he has saved as a man because we also know).
When she tries to peek and you turn the
phone, alarm bells ring. If you do not hide the phone, she sees a name, she
will ask, ‘So who is that?’ How do you expect her not to be curious?
Good/ bad- the latter is the reason she
even wants to know. It is true about women wanting assured security, who wants
to wake up one day hurdling a child on her back, falling all over pots in a
bedsitter and seeing that as her future life because the man does not even look
bothered? No woman- she will respect your potential and ambition, but if that
is also lacking, the smart ones move on.
If it is good, she wants to know if you are
good at taking care of it, does she need to be worried about sharing it with
some other women and how come your expenses don’t equal your pay check…clues to
a man’s shenanigans. That is why men try their hardest to hide it and women try
their damnest to find out.
Others are obvious with it, other’s not
quite obvious; but trust me when she is in the bathroom and she senses you are
at the bar entertaining people in her absence, she will feel it. That is why women don’t take too long in the bathroom when
they go to dinner with their man. They always rush back. That man will be acting single when the right
pair of assets comes around.
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