Forgive and forget does not work in relationships
20 June 2016, 18:36
You know the way most people look back, eons
later and only say that they wished they had seen or known what they had gotten
Most of the time it is because you actually did know the thing
about relationships is that we tell ourselves; forgive and forget is also
Maybe it is but liberally. We tend to know
a lot about someone and the way they are by looking at the relationship through
clear glasses. Most of the time you have yourself to blame when you are in the
situation you are in. No one will tell you because they are afraid of your
backlash, so the other person carries all the blame. They may be evil or bad
but you knew and you thought you could change them, or heaven help us, pray for
them. Prayer is good but…. (You get what I am saying; let us not even go there)
Forgetting in a relationship does not work
because you always have to keep asking yourself when something keeps happening,
if you can keep handling it. You have to ask yourself whether you are still
going to stick around and keep putting up with it. And what else has changed/
If it is still the samae then why are you there. You only have yourself to
blame when you choose not to move on but keep putting up with the same. It is
all about being liberal and being practical.
Don’t look back years later and hold
someone else accountable for your actions. It was all you. It was always you.
No matter what you choose to tell yourself.
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