Female activities men pretend to like but don't
19 September 2016, 14:11
Nairobi - A friend is getting married (not my friend
I am just telling you a story); so a friend is getting married. Typical female
reaction who is a close associate to that friend, is if she is not included in
the bridal party, she will be very angry. If you are a lady and you have more
than six friends, it is usually very hard to pick out a bridal party because
for most women they are now waiting to see on a scale of 1-10/ 20 or whatever
where they rate as your friend or don’t rate at all. That is why some women can
have up to 20 bridesmaids all of the bickering and not helping the process.
The other day I was telling my friend she
needs to wed very quickly so that I can be in her bridal party but then I
remembered the work involved and the expenses when it comes to buying more than
two dresses and shoes and hoped she will not choose me. I would rather attend
and be worried about my food but be part of a bridal party? Hell no! I do not
want it after some thought. It is your job to make sure the bride’s day goes
perfect and you are not doing it alone, you are doing it with other nitwits. It
is a migraine, it is a headache so I am praying she just tells me all her
female relatives had to be on the entourage. Her family is the type that gives
a new meaning to extended family.
part of a wedding entourage
I think the men do it because the guy has
asked and they do not want to let him down but if given a way out I do not
think the men want it. Neither do they enjoy those daily meetings where you are
taught the perfect way to twirl your partner while going up the aisle. If there
are people doing a countdown to the end of the wedding day, I am sure it is
usually the groomsmen.
to strange people weddings
He does not know them but you do. So when
they said plus one, whom did you pick? Your man, not your girl like the way you
did while single! Men dislike it intensely when the girlfriend or wife suddenly
plans a day for him to attend the wedding of people he does not know. Worst
part is while you will be mingling; he will have to sit around idle (he does
not know anyone remember?) or make small talk with people he will probably
never see again. If he leaves because you seem to be having the time of your life-
he is not supportive! How to waste a complete day of your man’s. If he says he
does not want to; you get mad.
It is not that he dislikes your family; but
there are these families that have get togethers every weekend. After a while,
trust me, the man is not enjoying it. He does not even spend as much time with
his family but you enjoy it because all the women are together, they chat and
cook or whatever. The men; unless there is a game on and they are allowed to
watch; your man is killing himself in his head as he makes up an excuse for
This does not apply for all men because
there are some men that actually like doing it. On the other end of the
spectrum are majority of the guys whom as compared to walking from one shop to
the other would rather spend his weekend on the couch watching his favourite
show or game. Not tarmacking in the sun as she figures out where to go to next.
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