Do you know where he lives?
20 September 2016, 18:03
Nairobi - I think you should. I am not talking about
one that can be classified as a loft either; I am talking about the good old
fashioned Kenyan one roomed small house.
You know the way women shy away from house
dates and want to always go out? Not a bad thing for self-respect and all that.
I don’t! If a man tells me come visit me at
my house; I will be there- gladly! This is one of the means I use to tell if
this is going anywhere or nowhere. Saves me time and drama. I for a fact know
that men are very good at pretending but your house will tell me about you; not
the one you borrowed either. Because I can also tell if it is your house or
There is nothing wrong with a bedsitter; we
all start from somewhere unless you are a forty year old in a bedsitter and now
I have questions as to where you have been all this time.
Then when I enter; what is the first thing
that I trip over. Is the house organized or does a hurricane pass through it
from time to time? You know those guys. One shoe is over here, then the other
one you cannot see except for the laces. Are the shoes even clean or they have
just been piled up somewhere. You know
since it is a bedsitter, you can see the bed; so how are the sheets and how
much laundry has to be moved before you can sit down. Can you even sit?
Let us not even start with the cooking
section and how it looks.
You can tell a lot about a man when you
visit the place he lays his head at night. That is a good indicator of whether
I am ready to deal with him or not. That is how you de-clutter your life and
When you get into a man’s bedsitter, you
will find instant contraception- trust me. You will just see your life juggling
that child in that small space and your uterus will shrivel. No matter how good
looking that man is.
Some of you just go on dates out there, go
to the fancy hotels and trips thinking that is how the man actually lives until
you get pregnant and you have to move in with him. Then you get the shock of
Next time a man asks you to visit him;
don’t be against it because you are thinking about his nefarious intentions.
Save yourself a whole relationship down the drain by actually going. Trust me,
that minute he has to produce the sufuria
you are cooking from is the moment you will be sure as to whether you actually
want to go to another date.
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