Do women really need to be in competition for men?
21 September 2016, 18:14
Nairobi - I don’t know who came up with this dumb
survey but I am sure a man was behind it; 7 women: 1 man. To add on to this
one, there was a status by someone for men not to worry if they keep being
rejected because there will reach a time seven of them will be clamouring to
marry him all at once and not be afraid of sharing.
I really do read a lot of dumb stuff; just
that this is a professional paper otherwise I would really love to share some
I really hope I am alive when such a time
comes so that I can bear witness to this phenomenon. Women cannot even share a
chair without being angry about it, what about a man? Have you ever attended an
event and found a woman put her bag on the chair to show her presence then
maybe you want to talk someone or you just happened to be stupid enough to move
that bag? Notice the look she gives you when she comes back?
If a man ever puts it in your head that the
only option you have is him and nobody else, he is playing into your
insecurities. Even if he looks like a plum piece of pie; trust me the man knows
there is another version of him that is even better. If he was attracted to
you, so will the next man. Never fall for that lie that the best husband you
can have is someone already tried and tested by another woman. Find your own
and leave that drama alone- there is drama!
If you see a woman with a good thing going;
please leave that relationship alone. It never gets old to say this but if he
cheated with you, he will cheat on you and you will not be able to stand on a
higher moral ground because we will all say you deserve it. I have heard a
rumour (actually not a rumour since it is in the news) that Angelina Jolie is
filing for divorce against Brad Pitt. Wherever Jennifer Aniston is, she must be
having a smirk on her face; whether she cares or not- it will still feel good.
Men are all over in my opinion; you just
have to be confident enough to know what you want and apply. Stable men, secure
men, professional men, respectful men (married men you cheat with are not
respectful. He will not be respectful to you either just as he is with her),
good looking men, crazy men (though we avoid this ones for relationships
because they are crazy)- whatever you
want. Just know what you want but the rules are; avoid other women’s men
especially when it is your friend or sister and two- don’t fall for men’s
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