Different ways people use to end a relationship if they just don’t want to say it
31 May 2016, 20:33
Nairobi - You have been in a relationship with
someone and then all of a sudden they start acting weird. Not everyone is
comfortable with the conversation about ending a relationship, especially if
they are not sure you are in the same boat as they are. When they say actions
speak louder than words, it is because they actually do.
You have probably had the term, ‘cheating
is at times not about you’. We misinterpret is in a lot of ways but when you
choose to break up with someone because you suddenly found out about their
cheating, they are not even arguing with you about it, it is because it has
served its purpose. They are remorseful but they are not crying about getting
back together but agreeing with you that it is over.
no longer want to have any dates with you
You cannot have time, when it is work but
there is the other group; they do not have time, because they would rather be
with other people. They are free on weekends but they accept plans with other
people and not with you. They want you, to bring up the topic of breaking up
because they might be done.
shove their flirtation in your face
People never stop looking by the way; both
men and women. We all look. Thing is we respect our spouses especially when
they are there by trying not to look. When all of a sudden this behavior shifts
and they do it blatantly whenever you are around and you have known for a while
that their mood towards you has changed; you need to ask whether they are done.
stop bothering about you
Throughout the whole relationship, for
people who are trying to make it work, a person finds different ways to please
you. They look to surprise you, do things for you, try to do things the way you
want and all that. If it all of a sudden stops or does so gradually and you
have been sensing something is off for a while, then someone is asking for a
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