Decisions that your partner should not make for you
07 July 2016, 18:05
of birth control you should use
It should be a mutual decision but mostly
what you are comfortable with. If it a decision you are making, like deciding
that you are done having more kids, one partner should not have the upper hand
like telling the other they should take the more permanent solution. You never
know what can happen down the road and you will want to make a decision that
does not make you regret.
and how many kids to have
If you are not ready, then let them know.
If you are ready then them know as well. If you want to focus on career and
self-development first do not compromise yourself and later on be miserable
pointing fingers. Children are important decisions for any couple that are in a
serious relationship. You should be on agreement on how and what to do. Don’t
think on how they might change their mind later.
If you want to stay at home, do so but only
because you want to not because someone has asked. People change their minds on
things so do such only out of your own volition. If it is a promotion, you can
discuss but be the one to have a final say. If it is changing careers or
moving, let it be because you want to and not because it was on someone else’s
Some like the shenanigans, others could
care less. If you can or cannot afford it; let us hope you and your partner
will be able to agree on whether to have one, go to the AG or just not to do
it. If you do it, how big is usually a problem for others as well.
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