Dating a divorced man
13 September 2016, 22:50
Nairobi - On the list of people to avoid, this one is
usually included because 1. Why did they get divorced and was he the root cause
and 2. She is always going to be around especially if they have kids among
But you cannot go around avoiding people
based on stereotypes because that is how you miss out on potentially good
is one of the relationships you actually do have to take slow
There is a reason the stereotype exists;
don’t fall in love too fast and end up having an oops moment. Find out whatever you need to find out and make a
decision as to whether you want to stick around for it. There is always
something and it is your job to figure it out.
is not going anywhere
Just prepare yourself for that. If there
are kids, the kids are not going anywhere and the mother of those kids is not
going anywhere. That is the downside of any relationship that involves
children. No one is going anywhere until either of them is six feet under. Get
over it or move on. If you are putting up with any negatives right now, that is
what you are going to have to deal with.
from everyone including the divorced person
You know the way people don’t like being
told about a certain ex; you not only have to deal with it from that partner
but their whole family as well. They will constantly be comparing you to that
former spouse and seeing your pros and cons. You will get tired of it but it is
not going to go away for a long while. Every person you come in contact with
will be constantly bringing up the former wife.
will wait for a very long time for anything long term situation
Any person that has tried being married and
had a bad experience that led to a divorce will not be trying to get back in
the same situation for a long while. If you are in a hurry to settle down, you
will have to learn patience from this one.
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