Checklist of an immature boyfriend
11 August 2016, 17:11
Nairobi - I think I have a pretty good idea on this
one because in my dating life, I am sure I have come across a few and I just
had to let them go because I could not deal.
Seriously, dating an immature guy is one of
the most unfulfilling, frustrating experiences you will ever have. If you are
already relating to those emotions, there is your answer.
have never not even one conversation on ideas, vision, and you basically do not
want to even because you do not take him seriously
Your conversations rally around social
life, what and whom you will be with where, what to eat and what to watch. That
is it, if you can progress to work and how it was, that is a good day. If you
cannot take the man you are with right now seriously and do not even want to
have such conversations with him it is because you do not see the relationship
going anywhere. Why? There is nothing there.
not want any responsibility
Believe a man when he tells you he is not
ready to be a father. Believe him when he would rather spend on himself and his
toys rather than anything meaningful. As you carry your load now, so shall you
if you decide to go long term with the guy. Toys are not bad but you will know
when it is a problem where your man is concerned.
Refer to the above paragraph. The worst is
when it involves anything to do with your family. We all have to agree that we
have baggage and most of it comes in the form of family. Most people in
relationships choose to understand this fact and if he is adamant about it. Not
wanting any association and it creates a problem every time it comes up,
believe him. You might not want to settle with that guy, he will never want
your family around.
effort on his part
You are in a relationship but you are not
in a relationship because you are in it alone at the end of the day. You have
to push the guy in order for you to do anything meaningful or even small at the
end of the day.
He is a relationship just because he is in
a relationship; not for anything or be something or achieve anything. He is
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