Call the sponsor
25 July 2016, 16:15
Nairobi - ‘Call the sponsor, he gets us drinks.’
‘The sponsor will pay rent, mimi ntacome
The number of times I have heard that line
from these men that I should consider as ‘husband material’ I cannot even
count. Thing is, it is not just one but many.
As much as the men are bashing the young
ladies for having those sponsors, check yourself because it is becoming
something of a beneficiary sort of thing where you are also enjoying the
So this young lady, I am going to assume
the impressionable one not the one that is out for herself but the one that
wants to prove herself to her man; does what he says. Because he is her man and
she loves him.
It is not the first time that a young lad
will ask his lady;
boss likes you, sleep with him I get the promotion’
He will not appreciate you. He will get the
promotion and he will leave you. Don’t listen to your young boyfriend while you
are start struck. He wants to use you to get to where he wants but he will
never forget what you did to get him there- in a negative light.
him pay his rent, fees, or his lifestyle by using your body
‘How can she do that for a man? She is
foolish!’ ‘She should do it for herself.’
That is why I said, impressionable. Some
ladies could never but most ladies do actually. Those boyfriends you see
lazy-ing in the house the whole day, have no job but at the end of the week he
is at the club spending top money. You know he has no job and he isn’t a
hustler. If he isn’t the sponsee or the pimp, his ever loving girl is.
your nudes or record your sexual escapades
Don’t listen to your boyfriend especially
if he is not trying to be your husband. Then, if you have to, just make sure
your face is not in it.
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