Are you 'crazy' in love?
06 July 2016, 12:00
Nairobi - When you talk about a healthy relationship, a lot of terms
come into mind.
Most people do not know how an unhealthy relationship looks
like and when you find yourself in one, your option is not to exit but, ‘at
least it’s better than what someone else has.’
We tend to overlook the signs when someone is crazy and
jealous and think that it is a good thing when it is actually not.
When you are first dating someone and they give you their
full attention without missing a bit and the small jealousy that we tend to
play off. It is cute, at first. Until you are in an actual relationship with
them and it becomes something bigger and worse.
The partner who does not like you talking to anyone; they
don’t want you to be seen with anyone else other than them and they just get
out of hand. They want to police your every move to reassure themselves.
You will not be doing anything but it makes the relationship
unbearable. It gets to a point that you become tired and when you eventually
want to leave, that is when the drama starts. Unless they are ready for your
relationship to end, they are not.
They are the ones that chase after your new item, threaten
them and make you consequently loose out when it comes to people. They
eventually associate you with ‘that’ person and thusly not want anything to do
The moment you sense such with anone, you should leave. The
earlier, the better- easier bonds to break. But if you stay longer, the harder
it will be for you to leave them behind. They will be your shadow for every
moment you try and create something good for yourself. Literally a dark shadow.
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