Africa's richest woman cooks for her husband... Why?
22 March 2016, 18:05
Nairobi - You have to ask yourself as a man what her man still does
right for her all these years for her to have never changed her attitude
towards her man. What does he do right as a man that has made her that
dedicated towards him?
Don’t say, ‘… but women these days don’t!’
Don’t say, ‘…but these girls of these days don’t!’
Don’t say, ‘…but Kenyan women don’t!’
But you can most definitely say, ‘……my woman does not!’ or
‘she would never!’
Then after that you can obviously ask yourself why. A man’s
treatment of his woman determines her attitude toward him from the beginning
and all those years later while they are still together.
It does get to me when I hear the men who clown around
complaining about women in general and yet they are the worst examples of
husbands and boyfriends. You wonder how they end up in a relationship but I
think for a lot of women they just get to a point where they are like they will
take whatever comes there way. So it is not that these guys miss out on good
women, they actually get them and settle down actually.
Thing is, they want to be treated nicely by the same women
that they do not take care of or really do not care about. He also wants to
stand with the good men and tear other women down talking about how feminism
has ruined women’s attitude. Nothing ruins a woman’s attitude. It has always
been there but what you are experiencing is her reaction to you from how you
treat her and her life with you.
Get that in your head then we can all have some
understanding of why one of Africa’s richest woman will still be submissive and
be feminine for her man.
It takes a really great man to stand aside and let his woman
do what she is doing. It takes a really great man to stand back and let a woman
run her own empire and you might find that maybe he is not any kind of
millionaire. But it did not hurt his pride, hurt his ego or get him confused
about her priorities. She is appreciating that fact about him. His support for
her- every single day. Now how many of you men can still stand up and say you
could have done the same for your wife or girlfriend.
You just want to eat good will but do you provide the same?
Some of you would never even help your wives with the kids when she gets a
little bit late from work on an odd day. You will be sat on the couch also
waiting for her to some sort everything out; like she gave birth to those
Some of you will give your wife a hard time when she gets the
promotion and spends less and less time at home. Or do you think that this
woman with all the companies she runs she does not have the same issues but you
have to ask yourself the type of stepping back it takes from her husband.
He understands her and what she does; now how many of you
understand your wife and hat she does? How many of you actually even care
before putting your needs first and giving her a hard time about it.
Let us all put some perspective on these then the Kenyan man
can come up and speak his mind. Good women are all over. We all have attitude
and we all give it when we feel like. We all also have pride and egos but it
takes that really good man for us to bow down and say, ‘Yes, today the husband
But if you treat her badly, are foul to her and are a clown;
well then, there is your answer.
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