Advice for a woman in her 30’s looking to get married
12 July 2016, 19:00
Nairobi - As a woman in her thirties you are past or moving out of your most eligible years thus should adapt your game accordingly. However it’s never too late.
Here are some of the ways to get a husband when you are in your 30's.
1. Don’t look or act desperate
Your goal is to find a good husband. Not a husband — a GOOD husband, the best you can do with what you have. Be singularly focused on your goal and don’t let the man perceive you as desperate to get married because chances are he will not take you seriously.
2. Be accommodating
Eliminate profanity from your discourse. Eliminate sarcasm, cynicism, bitterness and jadedness as much as you can. Those are some of the most unattractive human traits that are doubly unattractive when women display them.
3. Be focused on your goal.
Have fun, but keep your goal in mind. If you can tell a man is not marriage material, end it immediately and don’t go out with him again. This helps you focus on your goal which is to get a husband and not just any type.
4. Have preference
Make a list of what you’re looking for in a guy. This helps you narrow down to the one or two guys that have the qualities of the type of husband you are looking for.
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