Your girlfriend will not keep your secrets
17 September 2014, 12:37
Nairobi - Women like to talk and who do they talk to on a daily basis?
Their fellow girls. It is just so tricky to keep your mouth shut when you want
to tell everyone about your day, your job, your family, and your man. But for
the clever girl you will know you do not need to tell anyone anything
especially if it is good. Women are ridden with jealousy, envy and even dislike
when everything in your life is too good while they wallow in pity. Because you
may think everyone is pouring themselves out but others are there to watch,
listen then strike.
That is why you
should know when to ask for advice and who to ask it from, but never the group.
If possible, go look for the married lady in church or that one friend that you
can really ask but never the group. Things you should not involve yourself in:
Some things are better kept to self
The things that you have not told your partner about him
should not carry to your friends. Resentment because he is jobless, has a
piss-poor job that can’t even pay rent, the way he is mummy’s boy. Things that
you do not want to tell him, do not tell the friend, unless you just want to
gossip then go ahead. In this case you end up looking like an idiot because why
are you with him if he irritates you that much. If he is so down-graded, then
you are too because you jumped the boat with him. And you look like you do not
respect yourself because you are with that ‘low-life’.
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Women think that men do not like to talk, well there is a
reason they do not: you will go and talk. He tells you something about himself,
then you go tell; your mother, you sister, your groupie, the aunt basically
everyone. It does not matter if it was in defense to explain why he is the way
he is. If he tells you something personal within the sanctity of your
relationship do not go and tell your friends. Good friends will understand, the
ones who will beg for the gory details want them so that they can feel better
about their lives.
Private Messages and Calls
Putting the phone on loudspeaker so that you girlfriends can
listen in the conversation or showing them your massages is not only a stupid
move but a bitch move. You are not in kindergarten where you are writing notes.
You just creating a cheering squad on the sidelines for the
problems in your relationship. And a hate group that is against your boyfriend.
Why do you have to talk about that? It’s between two people
unless you are recruiting for an orgy with your man as the starring role.
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