Women too have valid reasons to cheat
07 January 2015, 18:04
Nairobi - Men cheat for many reasons, and most of those reasons are
usually not worth all the effort that he takes himself through but he will
continue to do it. Once a cheat, always a cheat, it is the rare specimen that
makes it a onetime thing and it is usually for a substantial reason that can be
On the other hand, it is not men alone that cheat but women
do too and when a woman cheats it is usually for a justifiable reason. Women do
not just cheat on the man that they choose to have a relationship with and if
he ends up falling short on her expectations yet another man has been knocking
on her door for a long time, she will definitely fall; it is called emotional
Some of the reasons that can make her fall off your
bandwagon and into another man’s include:
Low self-esteem wife and girlfriend
Men usually have a goal when it comes to women, and like
everything else once it is attained, they move on. That is problematic when it
comes to you having that wife or girlfriend; you take what she does for you,
for granted. She is just you housekeeper, your cook, the mother of your
children and nothing else. You forget to be her lover and friend. So regular
Tim here has been eyeing her and the moment he senses her misery it is up to
him to swoop in and re-introduce her to those feelings you are neglecting as
her man because he looks at her as someone who can still get what she wants if
she gets back in the market. In this case, you cannot blame her because it
obviously is your fault as you neglected her.
Women are not allowed to cheat because…
Women are human too, just like men, they are allowed their
share of slip-ups.
Because she wants revenge
If you as the man cheated and both of you agreed to work on
it, forgive and forget, then move on. Chances are she lied, women are like
elephants, they never forget. If you hurt her deeply and she knows you cannot
stomach her with another man, she will do it just to get back at you.
Temptation is the devil’s messenger
Just like men, women get tempted too. Do not think that your
woman loses her allure as soon as she is off the market. Women are monogamous
because they choose to be that otherwise, they can also as easily choose to be
philanderers. Just give her the right reason.
Women can also get bored
Danger, excitement of
something new and unexpected; if something is missing for her at the moment,
and someone she meets is able to fulfill that need for her, then she will fall.
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