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Women too have valid reasons to cheat

07 January 2015, 18:04 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Men cheat for many reasons, and most of those reasons are usually not worth all the effort that he takes himself through but he will continue to do it. Once a cheat, always a cheat, it is the rare specimen that makes it a onetime thing and it is usually for a substantial reason that can be worked on.

On the other hand, it is not men alone that cheat but women do too and when a woman cheats it is usually for a justifiable reason. Women do not just cheat on the man that they choose to have a relationship with and if he ends up falling short on her expectations yet another man has been knocking on her door for a long time, she will definitely fall; it is called emotional fulfillment.

Some of the reasons that can make her fall off your bandwagon and into another man’s include:

Low self-esteem wife and girlfriend

Men usually have a goal when it comes to women, and like everything else once it is attained, they move on. That is problematic when it comes to you having that wife or girlfriend; you take what she does for you, for granted. She is just you housekeeper, your cook, the mother of your children and nothing else. You forget to be her lover and friend. So regular Tim here has been eyeing her and the moment he senses her misery it is up to him to swoop in and re-introduce her to those feelings you are neglecting as her man because he looks at her as someone who can still get what she wants if she gets back in the market. In this case, you cannot blame her because it obviously is your fault as you neglected her.

Women are not allowed to cheat because…

Women are human too, just like men, they are allowed their share of slip-ups.

Because she wants revenge

If you as the man cheated and both of you agreed to work on it, forgive and forget, then move on. Chances are she lied, women are like elephants, they never forget. If you hurt her deeply and she knows you cannot stomach her with another man, she will do it just to get back at you.

Temptation is the devil’s messenger

Just like men, women get tempted too. Do not think that your woman loses her allure as soon as she is off the market. Women are monogamous because they choose to be that otherwise, they can also as easily choose to be philanderers. Just give her the right reason.

Women can also get bored

Danger, excitement of something new and unexpected; if something is missing for her at the moment, and someone she meets is able to fulfill that need for her, then she will fall.

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