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Women loath the negative man

22 September 2014, 17:08 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - You can always spot those needy people, with low self-esteem, misery, the ones who like hating on other people, the ones with a lot of anger inside them making them so negative, they repulse you. If you are one of these, then you are just too hard to want or even love. As soon as we spot you we high-tail it to the opposite direction. Some do not even look it when you meet them, someone can just be too attractive, they are like a honey-pot and you are the bee, then you put your hand inside the hive and you get stung so badly the experience is enough to make you afraid of beehives.

I am not talking about bees, but that beautiful woman or that very attractive man, you decide to approach them and you are so excited but when they open their mouth you know you do not want to experience anything with them. You get to really know them, when things do not go their own way or badly, their response is filled with a lot of misery, complaints, channeling their anger with hatred and sadness. The attraction you felt withers because you finally see the neediness, and distrust that this person has, making them too hard to want because their company is just filled with sadness and misery that is too catching.

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Ever heard beauty from the inside? It is not about anything more than people who are happy and can make you feel so happy and comfortable in their company. They are never easily beat down. Their response to defeating situations or things that are not in their control is to accept and move onto something else. Not worrying over it or finding ways to manipulate it to suit themselves. Their energy is attractive as compared to those of the more negative attitude. This makes them easier to love. I would want to be around such a person because they do not drain me. Having to continuously console and find excuses for someone can be mentally draining as well as physically exhausting for anyone.

Even negative people want to get away from company that is like their own. But they always attract the same because positive company does not like negative energy, it is a mental exercise that no one wants. So are you easy to love or very hard to love. People who want relationships want people that make them feel good, not people who add onto their problems. They already have enough of that without having to deal with negativity and esteem issues.

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