Women like shopping, for men too!!
09 December 2014, 19:42
Nairobi - Women like shopping, at least most women do. Its either a
new bag, pair of shoes, a better house-but just about anything, the woman is
always looking for something better to replace what they currently have. At
times, it is not about replacing but just having more.
It has not been secluded to just that but the men have been
put in the same category. It has always been there but as the times go by, it
is becoming more obvious. Many people would like to think that the single woman
is always desperate and looking for attention, lonely, unhinged-because why
else is she alone and not with someone? It is not that she does not have
someone but maybe she does have someone’s. It is quite dreadful to have that
thought at the back of your mind that constantly tells you that maybe you could
have done better if you had just taken the time.
And that is why the
“single’ woman has decided to be a bit more open-minded and not have just one
man in her life but surround herself with enough as she vets them for
suitability-sought of like a presidential election, just that the candidates
are never aware. The deal is even made sweeter when you are the one chasing her
and she proclaims that she is not yet ready for exclusivity. If you find out
there is another Romeo, she tells you outright that you were never exclusive in
the first place. Does that make her a bad person or just an ingenious person?
Truth be told, you have to admire her gumption in such a case, because when you
look at it from her perspective, as soon as the man knows that he has ‘caught’
her, he becomes more relaxed and decides that she is better suited for second
class treatment, when there is that someone else out there who is still willing
to serve her the best he thinks she deserves.
So, if anything the
men are the ones to blame because she would not feel the need to keep her
options open, if only you would take the time to constantly make her feel like
she deserves your total devotion. I am not talking about the 24/7 treatment
because only a jobless man can manage that. What I am talking about is not
becoming lax in your attentiveness to her. If she can find that bag that serves
at all functions and is an all-purpose then the same dedication will apply to
the man that fulfills all her needs.
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