Why women always fall for the bad boys
01 October 2014, 17:50
Nairobi - Overrated conversation, yes… but everyone has their own perspective of it. Bad boy is not about wearing a leather jacket with matching pants and cruising down Thika road on a motorbike. I can assure you all the boda boda guys will pass for it then. Being a bad boy is about the attitude and that is what we girls are attracted to.
Do not be a pushover
The other day, a friend of mine Cindy and I were sat with her boyfriend talking. So he asks me what I look for in a guy. Believe it or not the first thing that popped up was, he should not bend over to my will. At times you make plans or have a ‘discussion’ and the fact that the guy just agrees with everything and at times the nonsensical, because believe it, we know when we are talking nonsense, he should be able to put his foot down and say no. I am not saying you bicker with me, but standing up to me and telling me no, needs to be heard by me at times. It’s about you taming me, not me taming you, it loses the allure eventually.
They do not wait for what they want but they go after it. Then they never give up. The ‘bad boy’ always goes after what he wants until he gets it, does not matter the way he will acquire it, but he works his hardest until he gets it. The idea of such a guy coming after you, is what gets the adrenaline rush going and we end up respecting the guy that never gives up. We eventually give in.
Read also: Things a man should never tell his woman
Never gets caught up in the moment
This is what makes us easily spot them. While everyone else is busy being caught up by the rush of the moment, he is just laid back casually observing the scene and that is what makes us hot for him. It is to want to see everything through his eyes as he looks like he already saw and conquered it.
Knows what he is about
Confidence is good, but is even sexier on a guy. This guy is secure in himself and confident in how he approaches women as well as how he treats them. He does not beat around the bush but is straightforward in his dealings. What you see is what you get. You do not have to second guess what he tells you because he means what he says. Not being afraid to speak his mind.
For the latest on national news, politics, sport, entertainment and more follow us on Twitter and like our Facebook page!
Disclaimer: All articles and letters published on MyNews24 have been independently written by members of News24's community. The views of users published on News24 are therefore their own and do not necessarily represent the views of News24. News24 editors also reserve the right to edit or delete any and all comments received.