Why succesful women get the worst men
11 October 2014, 09:40
Nairobi - I have said some
because it is never all, generalization is never good. Successful women get
what they want most times because they push so hard for it to happen and they
do make it happen. Thing is, when it comes to personal relationships or their
personal lives, it is never that perfect and that is because they take that
same attitude or approach that they use in their work lives and apply it to
their personal lives.
Why the worst men? Because that is what they are. You see a very powerful woman, but when you look
at the guy, it simply does not make sense. It is not because they never get to
meet these men, just that they do but these men do not take too kindly to their
tactics. It is okay to go after what you want, being the aggressor, thing is,
learning to create the perfect balance. They went after the said men but they
did not know when to pull back. Because the real man that we all want wants a
woman that knows when to submit and exhilarates in the aspect of being the
hunter. So when she is busy chasing him, he gets irritated because she is too
predator-like and lets her go. So she will go for the guy that accepts her for
who she is and lets her have her way but she will never be too satisfied.
Sexually Confident is
one thing, being in heat is another thing
Approaching him and
letting him know that you are interested is good. Take the step back and let
him make the move. But when you are sexually aggressive with a man you want
more than sex from, then you are going about it the wrong way. He needs to know
that he is in control. If you want to be in control, you will get just that,
but with a weaker man.
Read also: What women want: Man vs boy
Trying too hard
He asked for the
number but you are the one that calls to ask what happened. Calling him back to
thank him for the date is trying too hard. If he did not like the company, well
too bad for him, move on to the next one. Begging a man for attention makes you
desperate. You can call to set up the date but the rest is up to him. Let him
call the shots, if he is too shortsighted to do so then he was not the one for
If you need to scare
someone to do something with you, give you more than they are ready to or you
are pushing at a wall then stop. Go look for something
more substantial where you do not need to force things to happen and make them
happen there. Otherwise it was never meant to be.
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