Why one night stands are dangerous
07 January 2015, 13:57
Nairobi - I think that is the brave folk that are able to have an
active sex life and still be single, furthermore, the bravest are the ones who
constantly have random one night stands because I think they are the most
dangerous form of sexual encounters.
Not only dangerous because of the STD factor but also for
the following reasons
You can be robbed
I do not remember where I read this story but it went along
the following lines. This woman was dating this man, and after drawing out what
it was all leading to: sex, it was happening on this one night. After the
clothes were eventually off and they were about to get busy, the doorbell
supposedly rang. She had not heard it but the man had. It was at the woman’s
place, but she did not want to get up naked so the man went and checked then
came back but he claimed nothing was a miss and they got to it. The following
morning when she woke up, her living room had been cleaned out of valuables and
obviously the man had already left. On talking to the watchman downstairs, it
seems her mister had gone downstairs and opened the door for a look alike, we
will assume the brother. So while she was being kept busy in the bedroom,
someone was busy taking her stuff in the living room.
Moral of the story is, a one night stand will rob you blind
at the slightest opportunity that they get.
Trust your gut
That voice at the back of your head that you like ignoring
even when you are sober, may be what can save you from a dangerous situation.
Going back home or to a motel or hotel with a complete stranger especially if
you are a woman who cannot defend herself, may prove suicidal.
He or she can be a carjacker just leading you to the
slaughter in your car. They can be serial killers, I did not believe they
existed in Kenya even Africa thought they were found in Criminal Minds alone
until they arrested that man that drunk people’s blood. The list is endless,
but when you are out clubbing, taking some stranger home should be the last
thing on your mind. You would rather a friends with benefits.
They can become stalkers
This is why you do no
go to your place, you can even suggest theirs because once someone gets your
home address you open yourself up to a lot of grief. One might think you now
have a relationship and they can easily drop by.
Then there are the stupid folk who take someone they pay to
have sex with to their home. You cannot take a call girl or escort to your
house that in most cases leads to blackmail.
It might seem like a good idea at the time, but do not do
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