Why men prefer the older woman
01 October 2014, 18:11
Nairobi - Women like hating,
and younger women like picking on older women. I will not be too surprised if
the people picking on the likes of Lillian Muli, Julie Gichuru, and Carol Mutoko are
women and younger women at that. They
are women who are aging well, they have been on our televisions for a long time
and they still look the same. They eat well, go to the gym, work out and stay
fit. Yet here you are at home, being a couch potato eating burgers and fries
getting a large belly with the, ‘ I love who I am’ mentality. Thing is, both the younger and
older guys hunger for them and wish they could be with them, not the on screen
wants alone, but out here too guys if given the chance would love to be with the
She does not play mind games
In the movie Blue
Jasmine, the main lead is older but what she loves is to use old school dating
gimmicks. She has met a new guy and thus awaits his call. She spends the day
waiting for him to do so, then when he rings, she stands by it, lets it ring three
times and on the fourth ring is when she decides to pick up. Such stupid
games, or what texts to reply, which dates to show up for. Cougars know what
they want and their life is so well set up, they do not have time for such
stupidity and mind games. Men respect that. Some of the things women do make
them look like fools. He knows what you are doing because he knows you and he
knows your phone is always attached to you when he sees you. How do you aim to
pass this one off?
They know what they want
What do you want to eat?
I do not know. Where should we go? I do not know. What would you like to
do? I do not know. With the amount of time you spend talking it seems your
thinking capacity is challenged. Cougars know what works for them and what does
not. If caught off-guard it’s okay to be a little bit unawares, but completely
dimwitted loses its allure. The guy will just want to get away from the
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Sexy and confident
She is not still
trying to figure out what to wear, because her style is figured out. She does
not need the man’s assurance or his opinion on whether she looks fat. Why did
you buy the dress if you were later going to ask some poor guy to vet it then
get angry when he does with an opinion you do not like. Younger women need a
lot of work when it comes to confidence because some are out there on the
street looking like their entire being is a confused state.
I do not see mature women fighting in clubs and splashing
alcohol all over. Getting into cat fights over a man or some other nitty- gritty.
Creating public scenes such as scolding the guy in public and crying all over.
They went through all that in their teens and stepped through that threshold.
They have a rational and realistic approach to doing things.
Their life is sorted
out and they have a life of their own. Clinginess, expecting financial support
from a guy or tailing him to keep track of his goings are just some of the
things cougars have no time for. It spells being secure in herself.
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