Why date the married man?
23 September 2014, 14:58
Nairobi - First of all, he does not love you and that is just something he
tells you to keep you quiet when you keep asking needling questions. And no,
he will not get a divorce after this year is over, because it is now two years
since you started seeing each other.
You set yourself up
from the moment you find out that the guy is married. The clever ones cut off
ties and move on, you do not even need to tell the wife. For what? You are just
hurting another woman. It does not matter what he told you about her. How evil
she is, how emasculating, irresponsible or does not care. It is none of your
business, as soon as you find out a guy is married move on. If he does not have
children, he is still not going to leave her for you, because he is still
married to her.
The ones who set
themselves up are the ones who think that he will change his mind and choose
you over her as soon as he sees how good you are. Then you become sorrowful
because he is neglecting you. He does not take you to his family gatherings but
her. He does not want to be invited to yours because that is not part of the
deal he signed on for. So he makes up some excuse.
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You do not realize
you are being insulted, because you are that dirty little secret that should
remain just that; a secret. He will not introduce you to his friends and you
are just a weekend conference that takes place on a weekend and his life moves
on while you are left pining and waiting. If you have been doing this for a few
years, it is time you woke up and left that war zone because it will leave you
defeated, helpless and you will feel betrayed.
Going after another
woman’s property will make you feel elated in the beginning, but you will walk
out defeated in the end. You are just another pawn on his chess board but she
will remain the queen no matter the tactics you use.
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