When bad sex reigns
16 September 2014, 15:40
Nairobi - Why is that good man, putting up with that very defective
woman and why is that woman putting up with that douchebag boyfriend of hers or
man? Great sex; awesome, great sex can prolong the dumbest, most ill-conceived
and unhealthy relationships, while horrible sex can lead to a downward trail of
the best relationships.
I am not saying that relationships are just about sex
but it’s a key factor when you are with someone, in some cases it is what led
you there in the first place. How do you know you are having bad sex, trust me,
even the smallest (no pun-intended) of things come up:
The one with the lights off
Some people can never take their clothes off in the light of
day or at night with the lights on. That just boils down to a lack of
self-confidence. I say if someone is there with you, they most probably don’t
give two cents about your stretch marks, fatty thighs…, because they are
Lack of spontaneity, never outside the bedroom, and no
foreplay; you just want to get on with it and sleep. You even undress under the
covers, only the pants come off, the t-shirt with the ugly tagline stays on.
You are way too much
in your head
If the sex you are
having allows you to multi-task: arrange the meeting you are to have, pick an
outfit for the day, remember to email that supplier you forgot to and remember
to M-Pesa that relative- that is horrible sex. You are just going through the
motions. By the time you are done, you are drained, not from physical exertion
but from how you have just realized how busy the next day
No give and take
This just covers
everything. You do not tell your partner what you want, they do not ask, do not
care and just want to get off. No oral, or you just give but never receive
because you are working under the assumption that it is a give and receive.
Both of you think you are the best, so nothing new there. Like I always say,
each person is different you need to know how to make them tick.
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