Ways to package yourself for your ideal man
12 September 2014, 19:28
Nairobi - What will make a man want to keep you and not her? Recently,
there has been a certain craze over women wanting bigger assets. No. I'm not
talking about real estate but, bodily assets. You want a bigger ass, bigger
breasts, and the extremes people are going through to gain such are just
confounding as well as disgusting. Chicken feed, Knorr cubes…eek.
You want to tell me, if you do not have that, no-one sees
you. The most you get out of it is just a few minutes of attention in the
streets, because trust me, men see all kinds of women every day. Before you,
there was bigger better curvier and after you, he will most definitely see even
much better. The most that derriere will get you is a one night stand, after
that, he will get bored or tired and move on to the next one. Why? You did not
think the attention would last? Did you? Because most women are out here
acting like they do not need anything else to be chosen above the rest.
If you have an ass, good, but it is all made better when you
have a certain quality about you to go with it. Have class, brains, I am not
talking about classroom brains but intelligence. You are able to carry a
conversation with the best of them. Because at the end of the day, the guy will
not spend his entire lifetime with you in the bedroom looking at your
masterpiece. That is why I am telling you as soon as you gain his attention
with that and there is nothing else on offer, he has had you, he will move to the
next one until he finds that full package. She may be stick thin and looks as
if she hit her face in the wall but, she will be quality. It is proven every
day, that is why most women are left asking their friends, ‘what did he even
see in her?’ It is not what he saw but what he found.
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First thing he sees, how you look. I am not talking about
facial features but how you present yourself. I have seen some attires, but the
worst are when women are squeezing into two size smaller outfits. If you want
to wear tighter clothes, go to the gym or stop overeating. There is eating then
overeating. It is bad seeing a grown woman struggle to walk and breathe because
the skirt is hitching too high and the dress is too tight on her tummy. You can
still look good with loose clothing as long as you have taste.
How you behave, not only in public but just generally.
Loudmouths, who also talk as they chew, blowing gum in people’s faces, and
getting into brawls not with just men but women. Walking away is usually the
hardest thing for most people to do, but as a lady, below average ladies do not
get to question you. Does not matter what she calls you, which friend or
boyfriend she has gone after, walk away. Acknowledging bullshit makes you bullshit.
A man wants a woman who will raise her children with her
standards not even his, what sets you apart is your character. Your habits form
your character, so if you are chasing after men, having low-grade behavior and
entertaining sub-par thinking from your counterparts, maybe you do not need to
be chosen, you are still in kindergarten and you deserve to be overlooked.
Assuming Risper Faith wants to have a family later, maybe she will hoodwink
some man, but what will she tell her kids, because I doubt YouTube is closing
down very soon. They will see that video. I have tried to come up with what she
can say, and I keep running to a wall. A male friend told me, she was not paid
enough to do that video, because it has basically just ruined any chance she
ever had of doing something meaningful with herself.
What it all comes down to is that at times, as a woman, you
are too busy looking for a man, and you forget that there are quality men out
there. Thing is, there standards are just too high for you, because you are
busy fulfilling a basic guys standards, and his will eventually change, leaving
you in a pool.
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