Things not to say about sex
15 December 2014, 19:07
Nairobi - Sex is like a game, it is full of tricks, tips and you can
either be bad or good at it. But there are definitely some things that you
would not like to hear when you are with someone.
1. There is this ex of mine that used to do this and I liked it
In all possible ways,
that just sounds wrong no matter how you try to look at it. No one wants to be
in bed with you even out of it and talk about what someone else used to do that
you would like them to do. Not unless you are trying to make them get away from
you- then that will most definitely work. If you want someone to try something
with you, diplomacy is always key and how you frame the request will go a long
way in either their corporation or you getting hurt in sensitive places.
2. This cannot happen again
Maybe because you
have a wife or girlfriend and you are cheating or it was just horrible. Just
keep it to yourself and let sleeping dogs lie. That is why there is the no
3. You look different naked
If she is a woman do
not say it, because men care less about what you think after the deed is done,
but a woman, she will not take it lightly. Because the only thing that jumps up
out of that statement is that she does not look as good as you expected.
4. Are you done yet?
Most women are culprits when it comes to this statement.
Either you are not satisfied, or you are satisfied and want him to be done, you
did not like it, he is not sensitive to what you want. At the end of the day,
this statement should never leave your mouth because it might lead to you being
5. I do not usually do this
If you are not a virgin, then you usually do, do this so do
not try to make yourself out to be a sacrificial virgin when you are not. You
are already in the moment and no one wants to think about your past or future.
6. That was horrible
Sex is also about ego, for both men and women and no one
does not want to be bad at it. You can coach someone because people are
different but do not make someone regret being there with you.
7. Do not tell anyone about this
Obviously no one
wants their pillow talk out and about town but do not sound like you are
ashamed of being with someone.
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