The not so perfect woman to marry
16 September 2014, 19:01
There is the good woman and the not so perfect one to marry. Where does your woman lie in the pecking order?
She is just there to
get something from you- be it connections or association to so and so. She is
not too keen to spend time with you, and if she does, it is because you are her
stepping stone or the obstacle to that guy friend of yours that she really
wants. She just packaged herself
appropriately to lure you in but very soon you will be kicked to the curb for
the next best person.
The Clingy Girlfriend
She does not have her
own life outside of you. Wants to go where you go, do what you are doing or
planning on doing. Even just sit there and stare at you while making you
uncomfortable, most probably marveling at how she lured you into her psycho
trap. Eventually she starts suffocating you and is not even aware when she does
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You will not see the
signs at first, you may even feel flattered. But wait until you meet, your friend
who just happens to be a girl, then the psycho comes out. Her possessiveness
which went unchecked eventually drives you insane making you regret the
relationship in the short term and you cannot wait to break it off.
The abusive girlfriend
The one who talks in Luhya because you are Turkana and knows
you won’t be able to put any off it together. These are the ones you never
understand. They are with someone but they belittle them at every chance they
get, and in front of people because they know they do not understand.
The High Maintenance
Yea, I only eat at Soko or Tribe, please do not take me to
that Burger Place to eat fries. I only wear designer stuff; Versace and Gucci
please, yet she has never been on an airplane. Live within your means, if it is
too hard do not enroll people to take on that responsibility for you.
I see those men carrying purses in the street and I frown;
the first thing I will look for from the girl is 1. She is heavily pregnant and
trying to walk 2. She has fainted or is sickly 3. She is tying her laces and
the guy is just holding it while she is bent over, otherwise, I would never
make a man carry my bag. I want my man to be a man not my girlfriend or my PA.
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The one who likes
getting attention from your boys and goes out of her way to do so. The arm
brushing, the leaning on his arms until she is about to trip into her own
cleavage, the flirting and flattering of the eyelashes. To make you jealous or
just attention seeking? She even makes you look bad because you look like you
have no taste in women.
The Complainer/ Whiner
Nothing is ever right for her. Her life is horrible, the
work, the family, you. You are all not good for her. You all depress her and
she is not afraid to say so: to you!Concentrating on all your problems that you
have, and how anything could go bad on that day. Negative attitude, negative
character, negative personality with a negative bank statement to go with it.
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