The ideal Kenyan man is....
18 September 2014, 18:32
Nairobi - Obviously, there is that woman you want and you are not sure
how to convince her you are what she needs. Because all of us are always out
for the next best thing if what we have does not satisfy. What makes us women
loyal to one man and prevent us from jumping ship.
Has goals in life
You may love me to the moon and back and even bring it with
you but as long as you are a lay about who is not aware of his direction in
life, then why the hell should I be with you because I know that I do not
respect you. We love men we respect.
You need to respect me
Respect me enough not
to ogle at other women, it is okay to look, even I look, but there’s a
difference between appreciation and downright constant ogling especially when
we are out together. Knowing that I am good at what I do and not talking down
about me to your friends or family or allowing them to do so.
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The one who
compromises for her
Most times mutual
agreement between two people is the hardest thing to accomplish but it is the
bigger man who will step down and be able to find a mutual ground for mutual
My Family and Friends
A good boyfriend
looks out for not only you but also your family and friends. He goes out of his
way to make them as comfortable as he makes you. Not the one who gets angry
when they come over and does not buy food for weeks because they pillaged the
household for one weekend.
Does not have addictions
Porn, alcohol, smoking, drug… this will make anyone flee.
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Does not force you into anything
If he believes what
you are doing is not right, he will not pressurize or manipulate you into doing
what he wants but will instead advice you and leave it at that.
Enables trust in the
Does not give me
reason to doubt him or feel insecure about the things he does. It is not about
checking up on the person, but not doing obvious dodgy things and trying to
pull wool over my eyes.
Allows you Independence
It is all good to
have time for each other, but a little space outside of you is good for both of
us. Allowing me to pursue my goals and do my own things. Freakish control
behavior which turns abusive is and never has been good.
Listens- No interruptions, but allows
you to explain yourself before jumping in with his opinion.
Is that your ideal man?
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