The easiest way to kill a relationship is...
31 August 2015, 15:00
Nairobi - Skip the honey moon phase and things always go back to their
normal selves. Initially you always wanted to spend all your time together-all
your free time that is!
What can ruin a good young couple is when you want to
latch onto this because you fear that the other is getting bored with you.
Jealousy and over-possessiveness!
You no longer want to support your partner in the things
that they do without you. Networking events where they get to meet other people
or projects that they are setting up and you are not a part of.
You want to
tell them which friend is good for them and which one they should stay away
from. You want to accompany them to everything. If you do not like the ‘look’
of someone you discourage them from doing anything with them even though it
might be good for them and you know this.
Remove the dependency you might have as a couple to each
other and that will make you much stronger as a couple. You will actually look
forward to see each other.
It is not a bad thing to have your own friends, hobbies
and functions that you attend without them. Have something interesting that you
can actually come home and tell your partner about because they were not there.
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