The Kenyan man to avoid
22 October 2014, 16:35
Nairobi - I do not like being with someone and not being sure of what
they really want because what they like is running me around in circles which
can be irritating when you focus yourself on them. You are there, you know what
you want, at first, they seem to get what both of you are about then along the
way, they do or start acting like they were never in it in the first place.
Just wasting my time which I really do not like. Some of the games both men and
women play, especially players can just be a waste of your time. The ones to
look out for mostly are.
I want to make them jealous
This person is just
there to use you to get to someone else, and if I see this card I am off that
train. You are genuinely interested in them but what they want is get your
attention so that they can reach to a target close to you. They spend their
time flirting with you, your friends- and you just wonder if you are the one
who is too desperate. Going after someone who was not interested in the first
Giving mixed signals
One minute they are
there with you, the next they are completely off the face of the earth.
Just makes you
understand why there are players out there. Rather than waste your time playing
the waiting game with someone who is not in it. Put a break on it and move on.
What these does for many is we end up realizing that the object of our
attention or fantasies is just a tease or maybe I end up wondering what is
wrong with you. Maybe after all you are not grown up enough to play with the
I just want to be friends
Most times when that
line is thrown out there, it is not what that person even wants at times. We
are all of afraid of the friend zone, throw in buying them a drink at the bar
then you are definitely in it. If you
want someone you would not have wanted to take them to the bar. At times what
you wish for is granted then you regret it. On the other hand, when someone
friend zones you, I think you should take your good company as well with it.
Because they are not giving you what you were there for in the first place.
They should not have the privilege of your time and attention at their leisure
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