Taking your best friend's man
22 September 2014, 13:34
Nairobi - A rule I personally have is; I do not go after my friends’ boyfriend or
ex-boyfriends. Just makes for a very tight situation. Does not matter if they
broke up and you ask for permission. In
a world of seven billion people, I'm sure there is one meant for you, you do not
have to go after the one that was sacred to that person you call yourself a
So how do you avoid a situation like this coming up?The guy keeps coming
to you/your hour house to discuss their issues
Women are very entrepreneurial when it comes to
relationships. They know the right way to expand horizons. If your friend’s man
keeps coming to you to help sort out issues, you are not a good friend. Once is enough but if it becomes a ritual
then that is not nice. I am sure the conversation ends with, please do not tell
her I came to ask for advice. You should sit your friend down and tell her to
sort out issues in her household. You should tell him to go talk to her and
shut that door. But if you are doing the
opposite we both know you
are not helping them out, but helping you.
Thinking why is she not being nice too her all perfect man
When you are outside the fence looking in, you are
fascinated, excited and interested. You look in and think that it is a perfect
world on the other side. When you are not experiencingsomething personally, you fault yourself by thinking you can do better. He is
perfect in your eyes because you are outside, when you finally get him, that is
when you realize it’s a different ball game.
Why do you have a pet name for your friend’s man?
Most women are too blind to catch onto this one. Women like
feeling that their friend’s accept the man in their lives. That is okay,
because you need to know you have not made a mistake, but a pet name? And you
as the friend came up with it all on your own? That is too accepting, and if
instead of calling him by his name you use it when he is around, that should
send alarm bells ringing. In fact, you should not even use her pet name for
him. That is hers not yours, look for your own and call him what you want.
Looking for him in
You have all gone out for a function, instead of you
socializing with other people, you search him out. If she is there, great, but
three is a crowd. Do not try to get alone time with your friend’s man, or
flirt, subtle touches…
If he leaves her for you, then he will definitely leave you
for someone else. If you help him cheat on her with you, then he will cheat on
you with someone else. He will feel remorse for what he did to her but not with
you, because you had no scruples.
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