Six reasons why women fake the orgasm
13 October 2014, 15:14
Nairobi - At times men think women are the most complex of creatures, especially when you try to understand the reasoning behind some things. Like why she would fake it when sex feels good to him; he wonders why she would shortchange the experience for herself.
She has never had one
She has never had one and she is not even sure if she can have one. But, she has read what happens to other women when they get one or what other women say. Fear, anxiety, self-doubt especially if she does not know her body will make her fake it instead of having a whole conversation about it afterward.
She does not want to hurt your feelings
General consensus is that men do not have feelings. Most of the time they do act like they do not but this is a sensitive subject because it is all about the EGO. So she may feel that she will not orgasm because she never has with you but she still likes you. Thus she will lie.
You are in the mood, she is not
You may be in the mood while she is not up for it. So she will just be there until you are done and if you do not know how her body responds when she does orgasm she will lie that she came right before you did.
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To get it over with
If you are trying too hard, or taking too long, or woke her up when the sleep was getting too good; she will just feel too much pressure and in the long run fake it so that it just ends and she goes back to sleep.
To make it your best ever experience
Happens when it is both your first time together and she is still trying to impress you. No one wants to fall short of your other experiences and you do not want the guy to feel frustrated; so you fake it.
Trying something new
You saw a certain position and you want to try it with her. So to spice things up, she agrees but nothing is happening. In other words she decides to fake it just to get it over with.
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