Single women can only blame themselves
15 October 2014, 15:04
Nairobi - Kenyan women always cry about how there are no
good men out there. That said, there are probably better women out there than
you are who are grabbing the men. If you are a single woman and not by choice, you should probably
look at yourself and what you do that may be getting you the Mr. Awful.
Addicted to being in a relationship
Women rarely if ever rush into anything, they over-analyze
and over-think until it suits. But one thing they never apply the same is
relationships. When a woman is single, she is almost at the end of her tether,
so she keeps falling for all the ‘Mr. Rights’ that come her way and keeps
getting burnt just because she is afraid of being alone. If you do not give
the man time to know you, he will just use you, dump you, and leave you
wondering why you are not getting the call back.
He will change
If a man is 26+, you can bet he has done all the growing up
he needs to. Do not run into a relationship thinking that you are going to
change him. Look at it from your perspective, do you expect anyone to change
our character. Not habits but character.
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You are not perfect so do not expect to meet a perfect
person. What humans do is compromise. It is where he gives you leeway for some
of the habits and behaviors you have and you should do the same. Compromise
does not mean settling though.
The world is your oyster
Yes it is, but not if you think you are the perfect catch
and you can have whatever you want. There is self-respect and being ego-centric.
Ego-centric never gets you anywhere. Expecting the best when you are not the
best will keep attracting all the frogs and chasing away the Mr. Right. Know
the difference and work on it otherwise you will be left chasing after thin
air. Even the frog has standards.
His mum and you
If a man treats his mum very well, there is something to
admire but if he puts her before you then there is something to be afraid of.
You will always come second even after you are in your own household. Trying to
be her does not help, you will still come second. And you were looking for a
man to marry not a son to mother.
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