Signs you should end your relationship
02 October 2014, 15:27
Nairobi - At times you just want to hold onto thing and not let go
even if they have become a train wreck. Happens most of the time in
relationships, but maybe holding on is not the best cause of action and maybe you
need to let it go or become miserable in the long-term.
Constant arguing and
We all know that for a relationship to work, communication
needs to be there. But when the both of you cannot get a word out without
shouting or yelling, even on the pettiest of issues then your relationship is
down the drain. Most people say, you can go see a counselor, but that is
a third party who comes in for one hour, then leaves you to your devices the
rest of the time. And I do not think many couples in Kenya, who are not
married but just in a relationship would want to pay someone all that money per
hour. You may even try to get away from the arguing but some people can never
just let it be, they would rather just get in a few shouting matches edgewise.
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Lack of thoughtfulness/ special gestures
In the initial stages of dating, at the beginning of a
relationship, you do nice things for each other and you just want to make the
other person feel nice. When you have them reeled in, you slack off, then it
just reaches a point that you do not care, or you care but they do not, even
when you complain or try to talk to them about it, then it is high time you
call it quits.
You just can’t stand them anymore
You do not want to see them, you do not want to talk to
them, you do not want to have sex with them, and you just want to avoid them. Space
is normally recommended in a relationship, IN A RELATIONSHIP, but when you do
not want to see the person completely and they irritate you and you make
excuses just to be away from them, then you had better stop wasting your time
and just cut it off.
When your partner feels frustrated, the best they can do is
hurl insults and be abusive. It mean they have lost respect for you, does not
matter how much they feel sorry afterwards or try to make amends especially if
it is a habit they have developed then you need to close the door on that
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