Signs she thinks of you only as a friend
02 October 2014, 19:26
Nairobi - In most cases probably not because you helped her put you
there. Stepping out from there is like climbing Mt.Kilimanjaro, getting stuck
there and being unable to come down. So what are you doing that is keeping you
up there rather than where you would like to be headed?
You are too slow
You end up in the friend zone when you decide to take it
slow with her. Taking it slow…what does that mean? If you meet a girl and you
like her, ask her out once and for all if you give her time making friends with
her first, you will most probably be left on the sidelines while she goes out
with other guys. She will end up thinking of you as a friend other than a
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Always being the helping hand
She needs to go to the mall, you give her a ride to the
mall, taking her shopping or being her second at that family event…the second,
not even the date. When you are constantly rescuing her from drastic
situations, you inch closer and closer to the dead zone, you are past the friend
zone. For a girl to want to date you, you have to be a mystery to her, be like
that clown box that always has unexpected stuff pop out of it. That is why some
guys end up painting her nails and moan how much you do for her. What you are
doing is being a girlfriend.
Letting her be the shoulder you cry on
As much as women
constantly say how they want their men to open up to them, there is a limit.
And he is already THEIR man, when you are not and constantly run to her to help
solve your problems, you are definitely in the friend zone. She on the other
hand will keep looking for that guy who will be her rock and does not
constantly crumble around. We look for partners who look stable in terms of
being able to handle themselves emotionally so that we can run to them with our
problems not the other way around.
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