'She should just stay out of my life'
17 September 2014, 17:20
Nairobi - How real are the friends you have and do they value your
friendship or are they just there to serve as a benchmark against you or you
Are you able to tell
the woman who is using you by being an opportunist from the one who
legitimately wants to be in your life? Every woman has those but you need to
woman up and cut some people off. Signs to
look out for.
She is way ahead of all of you
The thunder belongs to her. She just wants you in her life
so that she can look down on you and feel better about herself. She never
compliments you and if she does you can practically wipe the dirt off yourself.
‘I got a promotion.’ She asks how much you will now earn, because her salary is
way ahead. Your children get called to
some National School, she comes back with how better off hers are at Gems
The Jealous One
She will talk about
you behind your back, you will hear about it but since you are desperate for
friendship, you keep her either way.You look bad in the new hairstyle. You
should love yourself for who you are, do not go to the gym and better yourself.
If she is lonely, you had better not get
a boyfriend because she wants you to share the loneliness; misery loves
company. She is the one who comes up with how he is not worth a dime, he is
weak and not good enough for you. She will use all means possible to ruin your
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Jumps ship because she has a new man
The one who is in
your life when you are both single and can share problems but when the man
comes along, she disappears. She now has no time to listen to you and your rent
or job and boss issues. After it goes down the drain, she resurfaces and you
Paris Hilton vs Kim Kardashian- The It Queen Bee vs. The
Are you the worker bee being exploited or the queen bee? She
borrows your clothes and goes out in them or to some event but does not deem
you worthy of an invitation. It was just not your crowd. You are just a prop
for her scene. You want her approval so
that you can be in her inner circle, so you lie to yourself how you are being a
supporter but you are just being exploited. Step out like Kim did, and find
your own minions it is better than being at the bottom of the ranks where you
are the joke of the party. Anyone can rise over such petty ranks, Kim did.
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