Sex mistakes Kenyan men make
22 October 2014, 14:43
Nairobi - At times the term romance confuses even me, a self proclaimed romantic. Is it about the
guy buying flowers every day, or is it bending on my hand and kissing it
instead of shaking it. If that is it then I do not want it because it will just
make things awkward for me and I would also not know what to do with those
flowers. I would rather shoes any day. Is it cooking for me? I do not want that either because we would
end up fighting in my territory. Maybe being romantic is about the candle lit
dinners and going for the movies but I am still figuring it out. I would say
opening the door or me and pulling out my chair but that is being a gentleman.
Then there is the sex
part and the consensus is that there definitely is unromantic sex and the Kenyan
guy is an expert at it. Or maybe I have not been out and about that much. But I
will tell you about what my fellow Kenyan women have been telling me.
MISTAKES THE GUYS ARE MAKING!!
No appetizers just the main course
It is just like
eating Ugali with mboga or nyama. You do not need hors de voresto lead up to
it. Just rush the Ugali into your mouth and you are done. That is how sex for
most of you Kenyan men is, no foreplay just get in there and get out. Unless
you are a version of a black Brad Pitt, Denzel or some other hot person; women
need foreplay. They just do not get hot for you.
Read also: Kenyan sex culture is boring
Shut Up and Drive
Just in and out, in
and out until you are done. Give room for further intimacy unless you are
paying for it; which then just something else is. Be able to read her movements
and let them guide you to what her expectations are.
Its just about sex
No it is not. That is
why you are termed unromantic. No calling or texting not even an impromptu
compliment to let her know that you are thinking about her. Putting the idea to
the woman that you are doing just that, excites her and will make her be more
open to you at the end of the day so you will not have to start at square one.
On the other hand shutting down then coming at her abruptly like a pit bull after a hard day will just earn you a quizzical look.
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