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Reasons your man might not want sex

07 October 2014, 17:12 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Time and again it’s always the man that is declared to have a very high libido, but at times that is really not the case. Is it wrong for the guy not to feel like having sex? Most of the time, us Kenyan ladies like to overthink stuff and when we start thinking it usually ends in a train wreck.

We come up with a variety of reasons even when we do not need to. If a guy tells you he is not in the mood, you: 1. Assume he is cheating, 2. He really is cheating 3. You are no longer sexy for him 4. You are the problem… all these you came up with on your own. At times you may ask, and, he may be lying but at times it is just the truth. He may not be in the mood because;

He is stressed

Work can at times take a toll in everyone especially if you are in an environment that is constantly on the move and you think on your feet daily. It just reaches the end of the day and you want to lie down and sleep. Same applies for guys. Maybe it is true they think of sex most times, but at times you just shut down and do not want to think at all even about sex. Same applies to exhaustion, depression. You may feel like maybe if you did it then it will take the mind off things, but as I have said; complete shutdown, even physical effort is too much.

Too much pressure from you

Let me explain it this way; just because people are doing it this number of times you should too. At times couples need to realize they are in a relationship together and not with everyone else. Feeling that you need to tell your boyfriend that you should have sex every day of the week takes the fun out of it... just because your girlfriend said so. People lie, and if they’re not, learn to enjoy each other; at the end of the day it is not about them but about you and him. And do not tell your girlfriends what is happening in your household. You are emasculating your man.

Physical problems

This one is on him unless it is an illness: drug and alcohol abuse, obesity … List is endless. Some guys just bring it onto themselves. At the end of the day if you are in a relationship, you need to learn how to take care of it if you want to maintain it. It is never a child’s play.

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