Questions you should never ask your man
17 September 2014, 14:03
Nairobi - There are cases where
the guy just feels like he could tape your mouth shut so that you could never
speak again or he could have a way to control your thoughts. Because your
thoughts always end up affecting him-negatively. The worst part is, if he is
trying to establish a relationship with you, your question is; 1. It sounds like
an innuendo, thus a double edged sword with two answers and so he is not sure
which you would prefer to hear, 2. He is not sure if he should start being
honest there and thus be able to build a ‘healthy’ relationship, 3. You are
starting to be annoying and he is mentally crossing you off the list, for those
dating, if in the long-term, he mentally blocks you out and gets selective
Here are questions not to ask:
1. How much do you earn?
‘Why do you want to know?’
2. How many one-night stands have
Also goes by, how many women have you brought
back to your house? How do you even want him to start with this one, because
what if it is a hundred, will you feel better?
3. Do you think: my friend,
sister, cousin, that woman, is pretty?
You can obviously see she is
pretty, why do you want him to confirm it to you so that you can make him feel
bad about it. Because either way he answers you will find fault.
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4. Have you cheated on anyone
Do you really want to know?
5. When are we getting married? (a
few months or a year after dating)
6. Is it in yet?
Are you done yet? If he was not
before, he sure is now.
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7. How old do you think I am?
This is obviously a question you
want him to lie. If you are above 21, you want him to say, 20/21, so that you
look younger and if you are below, you are happy because he finds you older.
8. What would you like to change
about me/ what don’t you like in me?
Setting him up for failure.
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