Oral sex on the first date?
30 July 2015, 15:31
Nairobi -Oral sex on the first date? No!
In other circumstances, I would have said do what you want
and when you want to do it. But I have come to realize that the real day to day
world never works the same way that our subconscious does.
Sorry, but the real world does not match as our subconscious
would like it to. And sorry that the society that we live in does not adhere to
the same rules that they put in place.
Oral sex on the first night that you and him are together?
Normally I would have said, ‘who cares?’. But he actually does care. Believe it
or not what you and he do on the first night translates to what you and many
other men do on the first night of the date.
Sex is easy but what you do while you have sex should align
to what he has in store.
What do I mean?
I have a girlfriend who has a boyfriend but I am sure he is
an ex already. Never has had sex with the lights on. Keeps her bra on. Never
has sucked the man’s d***. You all know what that led to already. Nothing. She
keeps asking me what she could have done wrong. I said everything. Just because
you earn the right pay and do the right job does not mean that would make
you stand out with a man. What you
are doing, I bet you that 100 more women are doing as well but that does not
mean that you be a whore on the first night.
Never let a guy bend you over on the first night unless you
want something more with him. If you want nothing more, then go ahead and do
it. If you want more- do not do it.
If you want something more, do not go to extreme lengths in
efforts to please him.
What you need to do is have minimum effort.
You can have fun but never let
it go past that because what you want is for him to be thirsty for more with you.
When you ride, do it well. Do not let it slip out and change positions while it
is still intact. That is how you win.
Bend over after a few months and swallow the apparatus after he
makes himself worth it. We can assume that is like 2-6 months of him being
legit. And he has to have given you a good turn along the way.
Takes you the right places. Treats you the way you like and
gives his best. Otherwise, no cooking filet mignon for an intestine affording
brother. That is all it is.
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