My man wishes for Christmas!!
25 December 2014, 11:23
Nairobi - Hmm, what do I want for Christmas, mmm I do not know, but
what I know for sure is that I want this year to end and a wrapped package
would not go a miss. But that is not happening so I am just going to settle for
waiting out next year. On the other hand, we can always wish and I do have a
wish list for the man I want come next year.
I want a man who knows his own mind
Just recently, someone called and asked me for a date, I do
not want him but he wants me. I have respect for anyone who goes after what
they want-man or woman, no fear of failure or rejection. What I do not have
respect for is when you do not have a plan and expect things to work themselves
out. So after dragging it out I accepted to give him a chance to state his
case, but the man then tells me I go for a date at his house. Obviously I said
no, any normal self-respecting woman would because that is just degrading on so
many levels, especially when it is a first date. Option two, he offers to take
me to a friend’s house-how cheap can you get. Then he asks me what I would like
to do then. And that ladies and gentlemen is a sad state of affairs because I
will not blame him but the women he has been seeing and those who came before
me, because nowhere else would a man get the idea that taking a woman to his
house is a date, other than from past experience. There is nothing wrong with
spending time indoors but that is for when you have reeled me in hook, line and
sinker- and only once in a while. Do not ask me for an opportunity to take me
out on a date, then ask me again what I would like to do and where I would like
to go-impress me. Mwanaume in effort- and for this guy his effort gave him
negative marks in my book.
Do not stress me
Just like men do not want to be nagged, is the same way
women do not want to be nagged. If you have a wife, she is a partner not a
donkey or doormat. Know your to do list because I know mine and I do not ask
you to remind me. We are not working on billable hours, so I am not around to make
life work for you but just assist. The
same way you want space to relax, I need mine too. My space is not for me to
handle your business, it is just my time. Plain and simple.
Women are devious but that is because men are conniving
too-we learnt from the best, you! I like to think I am a practical person, lack
of patience is my worst vice and I do not beat around the bush, thus, I would
like my man to be the same. I am not asking for your pin number, your
passwords, I could care less about your phone and your paycheck. But do not lie
if you are married, if you cannot make rent or any bill say so, so that I can
plan, do not make me lose my trust in you being able to handle our business. No
one likes such surprises, we only like the ones that come in wrapped boxes or
key chains and trips to the Bora Bora.
Respect me, I respect you. Appreciation of beauty is good,
even I can look at a female and appreciate that she looks good, but going is
another thing. Especially if I am there. Never make a woman that you are with
feel like she is a step down from what you want, she might be, but at the end
of the day, you cannot do better that is why you are with her. She has her
value in itself and it is something you should appreciate. She may not be the
Julie Gichuru for your one minute Anthony but she is with
you, make her feel worth it because there are always bigger fish to fry.
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