Men are afraid of women of value
19 September 2014, 16:20
Nairobi - In attempts to please the men in their lives, women at times
lose a clear vision of what it was all about in the beginning and the vision
becomes cloudier. They lose themselves in the fray for wanting tto be with a
man. If you know you do the following, take a step back and re-evaluate if that
is all you need form the relationship.
The house date
If you know you are trying to be in a relationship with
someone yet the only place you always end up is at his house, then you are
being used. Women who value themselves do not agree to a date in his house but
instead get taken out. You like this man, he knows you like him, but the big
test comes when he tells you to come and see him or visit at his house. If you do,
you have cancelled your value to 0 shillings. Does not matter if you ordered in
take out, because he did not pick you up and take you somewhere and he now
knows he can get you easy.Not respecting the mouth
Read also: Key signs that your man is insecure
As a rule, no man’s
downward features should be in your upward feature until you are long pat the
honeymoon phase of the relationship. You do not have to give in to his
auditioning test because I can assure you, the queue was long before you got
there and it will be longer after you leave. Look at it this way in his perspective;
let us assume you are on his radar because you are on demand and go out on a
lot of dates. If you give him a blowjob on your first date, in his head, so
have you to all those other men. Does not matter if you have not but that is
the theory he will go within deciding you are girlfriend/wife material. In this
case, you are out of the race.
Trying to compete with a slut.
If you want to be one then it is fine to go ahead and
compete with them. But if you are a female who values herself, you do not
downgrade your self-respect and principles in order to please a man. I can
assure you, a whore is a whore because she is in his life for one minute and
forgotten soon after. It is the one who respects herself that gets a ring on the finger or the pedestal with the girlfriend title.
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