Ladies: Don't be too desperate
30 April 2015, 16:15
Nairobi - I won’t be the last woman to ever come up with such a
You might be in denial, think you are a cut above the rest or assume
every man wants to lick the ground you walk on. But every woman has come across
that man who is just not entering her clutches. Do what you want, this man is
not budging. There are such men who inspire lustful and loving adoration from
us. Admit it, even now as you read this, there is that one who is just not
falling into it-your trap.
Kenyan women are very dangerous by the way when it comes to
the men that they want who may not want them back. Last night I was
having a conversation with a male friend of mine, I was laughing but at the
same time I realized that maybe I too should keep myself in check so that I do
not go to such extreme lengths.
Most of the time, the man being chase is so normal, that the rest of us do not
understand why that female is going off the hinges. Then there is that other
species and this friend of mine falls into that category. Success which keeps growing, money that keeps the bank accounts well fueled, looks and young-yes,
he is young not an oldie who is looking for a sugar baby. You can imagine there
are not that many young Kenyan men who have it all going for them so when you
find, know or hear one- there are always stories of some females to go with
My friend was telling me about a female acquaintance who had
come to visit him at his house. When you go to Karen, the house is made of
concrete and glass that you never imagined would exist in Kenya, you can
imagine the calculations that started going on in that woman’s head. She also
came prepared. They had drinks (non-alcoholic) - he does not drink! While he
was not paying careful attention, it seems the missus put some voodoo in and
created a convenient mocktail. So this guy is starting to
feel some type of way…hard and knows that she is yet to do anything to make him
feel that way. I applaud him because his senses are always about him. He knew
immediately that something was up. He asks her, she denies. What she did not
expect was for him to start chasing her out of the house. In a stupid move she
confesses and starts telling him how she loves him and would like to have his
children. (I think she should not have confessed because he now had a clear
picture of her that was not too good). Obviously it did not make him more
lenient, she was still chased out.
I wonder why women normally think that when they confess the
love they have for someone that he will change tune. He will not. Of the many
things that men fall short and in need of, is love. If you are interested, some
other woman is also certainly interested. Men can be insecure about some things
but having no female love is not it. Even the guy with buckteeth that are
stained brown has a woman whom he is… ahem! So when it is such a man who has it
all going for him, your love is the least of his interest and that is what
drives women to extreme lengths to get him. Works at times but not always.
He said he likes big breasts, you get implants. I can assume
if he says he likes small ones you get a reduction. You know he likes light
women you start contemplating those creams on River Road and the techniques
that will not be too obvious. If it all does not work, you start stalking his
Facebook and all social media for the women he likes so that you can threaten
them. If that fails, you can always go the mchele
route like the woman above, just make sure you look for an idiot who is an
alcoholic with such an approach, he will not notice the difference.
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