Keys to the perfect relationship
07 October 2014, 19:00
Nairobi - There are people who just constantly attract the right kind
of people when it comes to relationships and you always wonder what it is about
them that sets them apart. On the surface they do not look any different from
you but underneath, there is that ‘something’ that just sets them apart. So
what is it?
They have realistic
It is good to expect the very best out of people but some of
us are just unrealistic in our approach. You want the perfect person that you
expect not to have any imperfections. No one is perfect, people just bring out
the best or worst in each other. If you are constantly nagging someone instead
of finding a balance, they will obviously be on bad behavior but if you
empathize and create a balance, you bring out the best in them since they look
for ways not to offend you as you are creating room for them.
They do not obsess
They know that the
ball is in their court and they do not push too hard for it. They will show
their interest, then the other party will recognize it, but they will not
chase. See how they have created an air of mystery and remained laid back? You
end up being the one doing the chasing. But if you are constantly on someone’s
Facebook and Instagram, texting; then you look desperate; which is
not going after what you want but borders on stalking.
They do not over-analyze
Most of us like
over-thinking things. Did he not text because I am desperate? Did she not want a
second date because it was boring? Who cares? That is the approach you should
have in life, that way, you have other things to do. If it did not go well,
then there is a next time. If it went well let it work itself out. Just take a
step back and do not start coming up with ideas.
They are in a good place
themselves, at work, socially… That good feeling that they have internalized
within themselves makes everyone want to be with them and figure
out what it is about and how they can have some of it.
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