Key signs that your man is insecure
19 September 2014, 14:14
Nairobi - Having a boyfriend can be very exciting for a lot of people. Most will stop at nothing to make it work. You are so happy and excited at the
beginning that you overlook subtle warning signs that will tell you there is a loose
screw in his head. Here are a few warning signs.
He is a stalker
The one who wants to know where you are every minute of the
day. You may not even be working in the same office but you find yourself
calling him to say you are going out for lunch every day. At first you think it
is sweet he wants to say hi, but he is keeping tabs. You cannot even go out with friends on a
weekend or evening without him running a CSI on it. Who are you with, where and
what time are you going to be done?
Swipes an imaginary force under you and brings you down. He
just likes proving a point and saying how he was right about something. He wants you to feel like you cannot go about
anything without him because his words are the fountain of wisdom. He gets off
on making you feel bad about yourself and likes inflicting self-doubt.
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The Manipulating Breakdown
Likes knowing that he is dictating the decisions in your
life but the day comes when you will not listen to him. Watch an artist at
work. You will argue, but you will still not give in because you believe that
decision you have made is right. He will use your pity against you by looking
remorseful and telling you how you do not want to understand him, extreme cases
include crying. You will give in because it is not genuine. Thing is whatever
you are arguing about may be too petty just because either it involves another
guy or has chances of taking you away.
Does not like your friends
Your friends are what
take you away from him most of the time.
He does not like it that they take you to all those gatherings where you
meet new people and have a life outside of him.
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