Kenyan men are creating the mad woman
02 December 2014, 17:33
Nairobi - There is always that woman that will always make you second
guess yourself as a man. And even after you move on or she dumps you and moves
on, it will always boggle your mind because she will make you want to have what
she is looking for in the man that she eventually ends up with. Not because you
were less of a man before, or were not alpha enough for her, did not make the
right kind of bank deposits or was not schooled enough. The list can go on and
on and on but you will want to have what she is looking for. Chances are she
may not even know it herself but just knows that she does not want it with you.
The male mind has always looked for ways to control the
woman/ or rather the women in his life and as time goes you get to realize that
in this 21st century they are losing more and more of that with each
day that passes and it makes one want to shake something or rather someone.
The man wants the woman that they eventually choose, to run to them with open arms and declare that they want to have your last name, your babies,
build your hearth and home and the empire that you do so crave. Thing is, the
prime women that are now coming up not just globally but also in Kenya, have
a mind of their own and are not willing to settle. And that irks a lot of men
because the balance is being tipped at the scale. The woman is of the same mind as the man; out to have some fun up until she
catches the eye of the man she wants, or is able to mold one that suits her so
There is the feminist movement that is making the Kenyan
woman bolder. There are values to behold in building a family but sadly
most partners are mismatched and just recently one of my friends just quipped
out of thin air, that she would rather just have a baby as soon as she is
comfortable in life. Her other recourse, was that if she had the husband, they
would just have the children and she would appreciate if each of them just
lived their own lives. And sadly, or fortunately, most women are coming up with
the same conclusion because at the end of the day what is the need to put up
with all the heartache if you are now able to have the same leeway as the men
used to have. Because, what broke down the marriage and family structure was rigidity in even the smallest of issues. Such as a bit of time apart;
everyone had to be home at the end of the day, when in real sense they just
ended up there tearing each other’s throats out when time apart would have
cooled down the pressures.
But in this case, it is the man that is losing out because he
cannot just understand how he lost control of the situation. My advice to them
would be, if you cannot take the heat then you should move out of the kitchen,
and just agree to settle for the mediocre woman who will be average enough for
you. But if you want the prime sort of female who will build castles with you,
then you had better be the sort of man that she would want to dump her father’s name for.
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