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Kenyan men are creating the mad woman

02 December 2014, 17:33 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - There is always that woman that will always make you second guess yourself as a man. And even after you move on or she dumps you and moves on, it will always boggle your mind because she will make you want to have what she is looking for in the man that she eventually ends up with. Not because you were less of a man before, or were not alpha enough for her, did not make the right kind of bank deposits or was not schooled enough. The list can go on and on and on but you will want to have what she is looking for. Chances are she may not even know it herself but just knows that she does not want it with you.

The male mind has always looked for ways to control the woman/ or rather the women in his life and as time goes you get to realize that in this 21st century they are losing more and more of that with each day that passes and it makes one want to shake something or rather someone.

The man wants the woman that they eventually choose, to run to them with open arms and declare that they want to have your last name, your babies, build your hearth and home and the empire that you do so crave. Thing is, the prime women that are now coming up not just globally but also in Kenya, have a mind of their own and are not willing to settle. And that irks a lot of men because the balance is being tipped at the scale. The woman is of the same mind as the man; out to have some fun up until she catches the eye of the man she wants, or is able to mold one that suits her so well.

There is the feminist movement that is making the Kenyan woman bolder. There are values to behold in building a family but sadly most partners are mismatched and just recently one of my friends just quipped out of thin air,  that she would rather just have a baby as soon as she is comfortable in life. Her other recourse, was that if she had the husband, they would just have the children and she would appreciate if each of them just lived their own lives. And sadly, or fortunately, most women are coming up with the same conclusion because at the end of the day what is the need to put up with all the heartache if you are now able to have the same leeway as the men used to have. Because, what broke down the marriage and family structure was rigidity in even the smallest of issues. Such as a bit of time apart; everyone had to be home at the end of the day, when in real sense they just ended up there tearing each other’s throats out when time apart would have cooled down the pressures.

But in this case, it is the man that is losing out because he cannot just understand how he lost control of the situation. My advice to them would be, if you cannot take the heat then you should move out of the kitchen, and just agree to settle for the mediocre woman who will be average enough for you. But if you want the prime sort of female who will build castles with you, then you had better be the sort of man that she would want to dump her father’s name for.

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