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Is it time to end the relationship?

17 September 2014, 19:00 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Is it time to end the relationship? Here are signs that it is.

Trust Issues

When you cannot trust your partner, you cannot have anything with them. It is something you cannot easily change or avoid confronting. You cannot build a relationship on a cat and mouse game but if you have the energy, go ahead and do it.


The Cycle never ends

You have a big fight, talk and then make-up. Then after a while, it all comes up again, then you do the same things, but the same problems re-occur and they keep cropping up. You never go past it. You can’t build a meaningful relationship if the past keeps interfering.

Read also: Four common reasons why the Kenyan woman cheats

Individual Lives

You feel empty when you are with them. You just do not want to spend time together. You would rather go out of your way to avoid them. You no longer have any common interests. You do not even enjoy their company any more.


Reminiscing about feelings you used to have.

 If you feel like a history channel, then you probably are history. You keep looking back to what you used to have that is no longer there.


Accommodating your partner to avoid problems

In order to avoid arguments, you change your perspective on things or how you would do things in order to make them feel better.

Read also: How to build your sex appeal

You no longer respect them

Not as your partner but as an individual.


Insecure Behavior

They are able to make you believe that everything they say and do is right and you are wrong. The partner becomes manipulative by using information they have garnered about you during the duration of the relationship to use against you. If you partner becomes controlling,you become a slave to them and lose other closer relationships then it is time to call it quits.


You are not happy

The idea of your partner annoys you, something that was there has gone missing and the idea of them just makes you angry. Both of you just exist in each other’s lives but there is no sense of companionship in it.


Lack of appreciation

 Your partner does not value you, and they make you feel like you are nothing to them and what you do is irrelevant. They do not care and uses your caring, loving, selfless nature to manipulate you.


Plainly, you do not want a future with them

 You cannot see past the here and now, frankly, you just see yourself having been trying too hard and all for someone who does not really care.

 You have grown apart but you are just afraid of hurting someone’s feelings by breaking it off. What you do not realize, you build resentment against them.

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