Is it time to end the relationship?
17 September 2014, 19:00
Is it time to end the relationship? Here are signs that it is.
When you cannot trust your partner, you cannot have anything
with them. It is something you cannot easily change or avoid confronting. You
cannot build a relationship on a cat and mouse game but if you have the energy,
go ahead and do it.
The Cycle never ends
You have a big fight, talk and then make-up. Then after a
while, it all comes up again, then you do the same things, but the same
problems re-occur and they keep cropping up. You never go past it. You can’t
build a meaningful relationship if the past keeps interfering.
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You feel empty when you are with them. You just do not want
to spend time together. You would rather go out of your way to avoid them. You
no longer have any common interests. You do not even enjoy their company any
Reminiscing about feelings you used to have.
If you feel like a
history channel, then you probably are history. You keep looking back to what
you used to have that is no longer there.
partner to avoid problems
In order to avoid arguments, you change your perspective on
things or how you would do things in order to make them feel better.
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You no longer respect them
Not as your partner
but as an individual.
They are able to make you believe that everything they say
and do is right and you are wrong. The partner becomes manipulative by using
information they have garnered about you during the duration of the
relationship to use against you. If you partner becomes controlling,you become
a slave to them and lose other closer relationships then it is time to call it
You are not happy
The idea of your
partner annoys you, something that was there has gone missing and the idea of
them just makes you angry. Both of you just exist in each other’s lives but
there is no sense of companionship in it.
Lack of appreciation
Your partner does not
value you, and they make you feel like you are nothing to them and what you do
is irrelevant. They do not care and uses your caring, loving, selfless nature
to manipulate you.
Plainly, you do not
want a future with them
You cannot see past
the here and now, frankly, you just see yourself having been trying too hard
and all for someone who does not really care.
You have grown apart
but you are just afraid of hurting someone’s feelings by breaking it off. What
you do not realize, you build resentment against them.
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