I don't owe you sex!!
09 June 2015, 16:44
Nairobi - Last night was
like a first date of soughts. We went, had dinner, had drinks, maybe danced or
idled away. End of story is that you paid, I did not. Do I owe you? No I do
not. But what I will say is this, it is easy to feel tough on paper but at
times a woman can feel obligated to a certain extent just because some man who
shows interest in her or her breasts bought her that very expensive dinner at
some very expensive restaurant. I still maintain I do no not owe you.
I do not owe you Sex
This is just
plain I do not even need to get into it. Some man that thinks
since he bought you dinner or took you to that really exclusive restaurant,
there is also that one that will think McFries
is exclusive, that you now owe him. It is now your turn to put out. It is
most definitely not my turn to put out anything unless I want to.
I am a great believer of people having sex
whenever they want, you are mature adults. Do it on a first date, second even
before the date. IF IT IS WHAT YOU WANT but not because someone makes you feel
obligated or some insecurity makes you hesitate when it is time to go home.
That includes a kiss-maybe I did not like your dental hygiene or a hug because
you are a creep and are the touchy feely type!
A second date
applies to that man who thinks he is God’s gift to mankind and he is gracing
you with his presence. He feel entitled in other words.
He is interested
but you find out after that bad date that you are not. Just wait until you get
home to relay this information-preferably behind a close door because there are
those insane people that is he is driving you back, you just need to keep a
safe distance to relay your decision. Maybe because he messed up on the first
date, took calls and spilled his drink all over you. You are not obligated but
you can be open minded, that is IF YOU WANT TO!
Nor do I owe you
a cooked meal at my house or dinner
You know that
adage, the way to man’s heart is through his stomach. You can cook a meal when
you want to but do not let a man that realizes you are actually interested in
him to tell you when it is time. It is time when you want it to be, but not
when he snaps his fingers and makes you do what he wants. It will be a first on
a list of many!
I do not have to
invite you anywhere…we are talking about in the house
You can be
invited to an event if you are interesting but if I do not want to, you are not
coming into my house for coffee.
Also, if I tell
you I have something coming up, I do not have to invite you with me. We are
just dating you are yet to make the cut! This brings me to the last point.
I am not
obligated to be in a relationship with you!
No matter how
many dates we have gone to and you paid for all of them. It is called DATING.
Along the way maybe I realized we are not well suited and had a talk!
Do not get angry and start asking me about how I know how much you have spent! If it was
about your money and not getting to know me, then I really did make the right
decision by cutting you off now.
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