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I don't owe you sex!!

09 June 2015, 16:44 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi -  Last night was like a first date of soughts. We went, had dinner, had drinks, maybe danced or idled away. End of story is that you paid, I did not. Do I owe you? No I do not. But what I will say is this, it is easy to feel tough on paper but at times a woman can feel obligated to a certain extent just because some man who shows interest in her or her breasts bought her that very expensive dinner at some very expensive restaurant. I still maintain I do no not owe you.

I do not owe you Sex

This is just plain I do not even need to get into it. Some man that thinks since he bought you dinner or took you to that really exclusive restaurant, there is also that one that will think McFries is exclusive, that you now owe him. It is now your turn to put out. It is most definitely not my turn to put out anything unless I want to.

I am a great believer of people having sex whenever they want, you are mature adults. Do it on a first date, second even before the date. IF IT IS WHAT YOU WANT but not because someone makes you feel obligated or some insecurity makes you hesitate when it is time to go home. That includes a kiss-maybe I did not like your dental hygiene or a hug because you are a creep and are the touchy feely type!

A second date with you

This situation applies to that man who thinks he is God’s gift to mankind and he is gracing you with his presence. He feel entitled in other words.

He is interested but you find out after that bad date that you are not. Just wait until you get home to relay this information-preferably behind a close door because there are those insane people that is he is driving you back, you just need to keep a safe distance to relay your decision. Maybe because he messed up on the first date, took calls and spilled his drink all over you. You are not obligated but you can be open minded, that is IF YOU WANT TO!

Nor do I owe you  a cooked meal at my house or dinner

You know that adage, the way to man’s heart is through his stomach. You can cook a meal when you want to but do not let a man that realizes you are actually interested in him to tell you when it is time. It is time when you want it to be, but not when he snaps his fingers and makes you do what he wants. It will be a first on a list of many!

I do not have to invite you anywhere…we are talking about in the house

You can be invited to an event if you are interesting but if I do not want to, you are not coming into my house for coffee.

Also, if I tell you I have something coming up, I do not have to invite you with me. We are just dating you are yet to make the cut! This brings me to the last point.

I am not obligated to be in a relationship with you!

No matter how many dates we have gone to and you paid for all of them. It is called DATING. Along the way maybe I realized we are not well suited and had a talk!

Do not get angry and start asking me about how I know how much you have spent! If it was about your money and not getting to know me, then I really did make the right decision by cutting you off now.

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