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I am his 'other'woman

28 July 2015, 15:19 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi -I was talking to someone the other day, a woman, and she had the following wise words,’ the mpango wa kando is apparently what the man wants his wife to be like.’ Not the second, third or fourth wife but the actual side chicks that the Kenyan man likes having around.

First of all let me start by saying that we are not intimate friends with the said lady because I do not stay around ‘smart-challenged’ people. People who are not wise nor intelligent in other words. She was just one of these people that you meet when running an errand and they decide to share ‘deep’ conversations with you. Since she could come up with that one, I decided not to be the one to correct her because I already knew she heard no sense and I do not like getting into public shouting matches.

I decide to correct that mentality here instead and maybe she will come across it and wizen up a little bit.

If he starts and continues the relationship with the word contraceptive and makes the effort to even get you to the hospital himself, or even buy them; you are not good enough to have his children.

What did I say? Not good enough to have his children. If a man, ever in his life has planned to have children, you can bet he has the criteria of the type of woman he wants to have children with and raise them with. His wife might not have children and you think you can win him by having them and he still dodges it with you, then you are not good enough to have them for or with him. The mother of his children will not be a secret r someone he has to make clandestine meetings with.

You can also bet he does not want his wife at the bar at ten in the night

If you have a favorite spot and he has no qualms to take you there. If he has a favorite spot where they smoke and binge on beer until morning while eating nyama choma; you can bet that he does not want his wife, mother of his children, there. This is simple enough to understand.

Side chicks never meet the parents, relatives or any personal important relations-have you met his children?

Why? Just ask yourself why. But the wife gets to meet them, why?

Have you ever hosted anything for him?

No, not at the club. I am talking about being his hostess at his house, at a function he is organizing or taking you to an even with him. Also included in this, has he ever presented you at a function? This does not apply to when the both of you are colleagues or run in the same circles. If you are the ‘friend’ you can bet he does not want you to be the wife.

Has the divorce taken the last five years?

I hope you have a plan B and it better be you getting your own man because that cock is not crowing anytime soon. Even if you had an ‘accident’. A lot of Kenyan extended families have some accidents that never got their name on the door.

Where has he been every important holiday? Same applies to every important anniversary he has with the wife.

Depending on your answer, I hope you already know where you stand.

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